You can care too much, and it can break you. That’s one of the many leadership lessons Matt Delhougne has learned. From police officer to running a 70-agent team in St. Louis that closes 950 deals a year, Delhougne has seen it all and survived it.
On today’s episode of Real Estate Insiders Unfiltered, the Chief Vision Officer of DRG at eXp unpacks everything, including burnout, broker models, MLS politics, Google’s property data play and the two tools that truly matter for agent success.
They also dive into his unique ZIP-code-based lead rotation system, team culture, agent recruitment, the illusion of control, and how agents can actually crack the SOI code. (Hint: It’s not what your broker told you.)
This one’s a masterclass in sustainable scale, servant leadership and leading with heart without losing your mind.
Highlights
Formerly a police officer, Delhougne brings a leadership style rooted in service and simplicity. He shares how he divided his market into “zones” like patrol beats, created scheduled off-days for lead response, and built a staff of ISAs to clean up overages and follow-ups.
You’ll learn:
- His entire team structure and lead flow system
- Why SOI and listing presentations are still the only two things that matter
- How he’s cracking the SOI resistance wall
- Tips to make your business feel personal again with strategic, simple gestures
- How to talk to agents in recruiting (without talking about splits)
Delhougne also shares hard-won lessons on over-caring, hitting cruise control and avoiding the leadership burnout that nearly broke him. From AI skepticism to MLS data dreams, this episode is packed with real-world takeaways and honesty.
Connect with Matt on LinkedIn. Learn more about DRG on Facebook, Instagram, Zillow and Google.
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James Dwiggins is the Co-CEO of NextHome, Inc. and co-host of Real Estate Insiders Unfiltered.
Keith Robinson is the Co-CEO of NextHome, Inc. and co-host of Real Estate Insiders Unfiltered.
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